4 Week Getting Dates Program

If You Have EVER Dreamed Of Overcoming Shyness Forever And Get Dates In Under 4 Weeks Read On, Because I'll Show You Exactly How You Can Do It Too!

Maybe it's true that freedom rocks...but if there is nobody to enjoy it with it kind of loses its attraction, doesn't it?

Eating alone, sleeping alone, maybe not being alone but certainly a well hidden glimpse of loneliness in our clearer moments which we'll quickly try to forget... a nagging feeling that we are not enough, not good enough, not attractive enough, not confident enough, not anything enough...when you are single for a while those questions sneak in, don't they?

Did I mention no sex?

Sorry. I am crude. But this stuff matters. The killer with the lack of sex life is that after a while you don't notice it so much do you? Slowly but surely you convince yourself that you are not even missing it. (if you are good at talking yourself into things)But it slowly but surely changes you. Sort of takes away your sense of self doesn't it? Makes you feel like you are living in your head...rather than your body...meeting girls then becomes more and more surprisingly unpleasantly difficult.

What is going to happen if you let things carry on the way they are?

Are you ready for a slow unnoticeable decline?

Are you ready for your confidence to slip further and for a whole lot more of this deep deep doubt about whether you are in fact "lovable"? (by the way... you are! But I know me saying this probably doesn't mean anything compared to feeling it because someone makes you feel that way)

Are you ready for years of waiting...and hoping that one day your perfect woman the one that truly understands you and loves you for who you are will bump into you, talk to you and singlehandedly drag you into dating her?

Lets face it: The chances of you being magically rescued without doing anything yourself are 0!

On top of that..the longer you don't do something about it the harder it gets to change doesn't it?

Hey..Don't get me wrong. I am not saying this to make things worse. I am reflecting what I felt like at different times in my life when I was a shy guy who found it hard to get in charge of this part of my life. When I spent the occasional time on a bus going around London just to be around people...and of course...always looking for a girl that would look for me..continuously...but never actually picking up the courage to talk to her.

But I have also learned that I have a lot in common with you if you are reading this right now...Like me then you are looking for a solution to this.Like me then you know that something needs to change.

Maybe you want to feel in control around women.Maybe you want a good sex life. Maybe you want a girlfriend. Maybe you are sick of your friends looking at you as if there was something wrong with you. Maybe you want to feel connected instead of isolated. Maybe you want a girlfriend because it just feels right at your age...Maybe you just want to feel normal and confident. Maybe you need to know that someone loves you.

Maybe all of these things...

The upshot is that if you are reading this you are saying:

"I don't like how things are. So I will change things".

But how easy does that seem to you right now?

You see...we have those moments of clarity..those light bulb moments. When we see our life for what it is. And we don't like what we see. And we decide to change things. But then our habits, the people around us and all the little things we do DRAG us slowly but surely back to where we were all along...

Why?

Because they are powerful things, habits, beliefs, mindsets..

So we need help.

But from whom?

Talking to friends can be good.. although us guys don't necessarily like to have a heart to heart now do we? And often if we have friends who are happily married or dating all the time...very often they say stuff like "Come on...Just do it...It's easy" which ...well simply doesn't help. And because they don't know what it's like to be you they start to annoy you with their well meaning advice and motivational efforts. So you stop talking about this stuff with them.

Then of course you have your traditional dating advice. You know the kind of website that gives you advice like " Our top tip for a successful date is to clean your finger nails and be a gentleman" which insults the crap out of anyone with an IQ higher than 12.

You could hit the dating forums..and honestly speaking...there are a lot of nice people there that are keen on helping each other...and really are probably.

You certainly feel like you are not the only one with a problem hanging out on the forums...

But to be frank..the metaphor of "the blind leading the blind" comes to mind. And very often there is a lot of self pity and good old complaining around which burns into you the idea that yes "life as a single shy guy really is hopeless".

Last but not least there are the "seduction guru's" teaching you how to "open and close" a girl, how to escalate and how to perform so that women temporarily believe that you are an alpha male...often leaving their students rather unauthentic and more confused than before. Because interestingly whereas some of the things the "guru's" teach seem to work...once there is a girl you really like things seem to fall apart very quickly. (alternatively first or second date)

But seriously...while there are some things you can learn from the "seduction community"...like not turning into a "wuss" at the first opportunity or the importance of having a life...much of their "systems" are clearly designed for getting short term results..

The most successful of them probably is Eben Pagan (sorry I mean David D'Angelo) from Double Your Dating who even admits himself frequently that all the pick up stuff his products teach don't work unless you have a great level of confidence and a good underlying mindset ...and frankly if you have that you can do pretty much anything you like anyway.

So I am certainly not saying "All dating guru's are full of s**t"!

I am even going to be giving you my carefully selected "seduction community" ideas and strategies. Basically the stuff that works and not the stuff that doesn't work. But there are times when i think that a lot of their excellent marketing has created this idea that women are these aliens that you need to learn about 441 techniques to even just approach them. When a simple "Hi" and confidence would do the trick.

But here is the thing: Apart from that they don't necessarily produce programs that relate to someone who doesn't want to pretend, who wants to be themselves AND successful with women, who doesn't want a one size fits all approach to women and who has a instinct that women are in fact different and individuals and can't be generalised about quite to the degree as it has become fashionable in some circles.

Other clients have told me that mass produced programs haven't given them anything that really applied to them or that they got stuck on a particular issue which they then couldn't get any help with. Even if you went to a $2000 "seminar" you'd be one of 500 people...sitting and listening to someone telling you what to do...which can be great...but not if you have specific problems you want to get help with.

So what's the solution for you?

Well..

• Would you like the ability to speak directly to someone who has been there, done that and has walked through the minefield in front of you-the dating world?

• Do you think you would benefit from a small supportive group of guys in the same situation like you, able to exchange ideas, keeping each other going while you take action towards your common goals, overcoming shyness, getting out there and getting dates with girls you actually WANT to meet?

• How would it be to get online live video "how to" tutorials which explaing in detail and specifically for your situation how to deal with a certain problem?

• How would weekly live call fast start assignments sound....that start you off focussed on a step by step process to GETTING DATES no matter how shy you are right now?

• How would it be to have YOUR PERSONAL DATING COACH giving you advice each step of the way and gently keep you going when the going gets tough and old nerves want to stop you from implementing what you learn?

• How would it be to get the best of techniques and learning from the diverse worlds ofNLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Coaching, Achievement Psychology, Method Acting Training and Confidence Mindsetting techniques made to work for you to get confident about dating and get dates...all in a live interactive environment where your coach can simply post an extra video to help you with something you emailed him about a day ago?

All this you CAN have...if you join my

"4 Week Intensive Getting Dates Online Group"

Ok...sounds good so far. But who the hell is Stephan Erdmann? And why should he be able to help me with this stuff?

Good question.

The Good News is this: You probably know me a fair bit by now and you know that my stuff works when you apply it.

(and if you have seen the blog you know what I look like after a long night recording a video for you)

But more importantly...you know that I have been where you are.

For starters, I am a former super shy guy who took himself by the scruff of the neck and step by step, day by day, week by week, month by month learned how to overcome his shyness and nerves. Not just because I was deeply frustrated with not being in control around girls...not being able to just do what I felt I should be able to do.. which was to be in charge of myself, talk to someone when I wanted to...rather than feel like I was reliant on a girl basically grabbing me and do ALL the work.

To overcome my awkwardness at parties, when everyone would be having a great timeand I would find some reason to be down or isolated. I was clueless. It took me years to find information to help me make sense of it all.

It took me years (without anyone helping me) to slowly but surely make steps towards being me around girls and learn to start a conversation with a girl I was interested in. Years again to not let my own "crap" ruin my lucky relationships...when one of my few ex girlfriends took pity on me...(or I got some interest because of my reasonable looks)...

Years to sort the useless advice from the good stuff trying out all the possible "techniques" and "chat up" stuff from various "dating guru's" and in the process learning something ...but often feeling like I was trying to be somebody else.

Overcoming shyness and getting confident was also challenge Nr.1 and Must Do Nr.1 for my Professional life. And when you have to go to castings or auditions a few times a week and you are shy...I can tell you you start working on this quickly.

Why is this great for you?

See... as an actor you go on "dates" all the time. A casting is like a date.

• Only you can't use your own words.

• Your date could be a man or someone you are definitely not attracted to.

• Your date (director) is seeing (speed dating) around 40 people before and after you and spends about 3 minutes with you.

• You need to make them like you whether you like them or not because it might mean a career or not.

Then when you actually do a film.. there is Super High pressure. They stick a camera in your face, 30 people are standing around looking at you,while you are supposed to be completely relaxed saying words you never came upwith to a point on the wall because your co actor is in the make up trailor getting ready for the next scene.. and YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE "YOURSELF".

So you can see why a shy guy like me would come up with cast iron strategies, techniques and deep down transforming methods to cope with all of this.

The good thing for you is: I got obsessed with this. I HAD TO SORT THIS OUT.

So I developed what I call my mindsetting techniques...ways of controlling my focus that have helped me to authentically daily transform myself organically from the inside out which I have taught to Corporate and Private clients to help them cope with difficult situations, stress and loss of confidence.(One of these you have already have..The "Good At" Mindset)

I started to get very focussed on developing myself, learned from everyone and everything. Using amazing "secret" techniques that were passed on to my from my acting teachers and adapted them to my life transforming myself.

I started to do work in Training with many companies..Goldman Sachs, Morgan Stanley, JP Morgan, Sony, Daimler, Deutsche Bank and many many to train their staff to become better communicators. (Suffice to say I didn't prevent the Credit Crunch)

Better yet I got interested in truly amazing mind technology...learning Coaching and training as an NLP Practitioner...and getting REAL results with myself and with coaching clients which I had by then acquired.

I ended up being the guy that goes in to $100M Dollar Companies and teaches their Executives how to deal with difficult situations. They pay around £1000 a day for me. I am not saying that to show off. (It's not much anyway if you think about it) I am telling you this because these guys are in a different situation...but the stress they are experiencing is pretty much the same as you do when you want to talk to a girl and something stops you. Or when you freeze up around girls at parties.

See here is the thing:

When I started helping shy guys overcome their nerves and shyness to get great at meeting women I realised that I had found my way back to where it all started. And it's amazing that I can give you everything I have learned over the last 10 years. Because here is a secret: You can't help someone improve their dating in a vacuum. The rest of what they do in their lives is key.

So why can you trust me?

1. Because I have been there!

2. Because NOBODY ELSE can give you some of the techniques that have transformed my life and those of my clients!

3. Because I have tested my methods over and over, on dates, in castings, with millionaires, in voice studios (when the pressure really is on) and on film sets with some pretty demanding directors..

Ok. Hey I guess you have probably made up your mind about me already no matter what I say now.

So Here is what you will get...

Week 1

In Week One You will identify what you want and what currently stops you from getting it and specifically how to overcome those inner and outer challenges. And start taking practical steps steps to make contact with women you might be interested in!

Specifically with my help you will

• Develop a clear compelling vision for your dating success

• identify what currently stops you and how to overcome those obstacles

• begin the process of transforming yourself with specific mindsetting techniques I will give you in order to make meeting girls easy

• identify the habits and beliefs that currently stop you from dating and will have identified how to stop those habits

• learn to "see yourself" succeeding (most people can't see themselves doing it, that's why they can't)

• learn an amazing technique that you can use before a date that will make you feel at your best for several hours

• have answers to your questions from me on our live call (I am not a clock watcher on these things by the way)

• learn about the best places to meet girls-yes that includes online-I will show you how to set up an online profile that attracts women to you!

and much much more...

Week 2 Shy Guy Transformation Week

In Week Two You will continue your own transformation by expanding your ability to manage your own state and talk to people.You will learn proven techniques to turn yourself from shy guy into an assertive confident guy who enjoys interactions with people. You will learn to connect more easily and how to think of dates and yourself in it.You will overcome general shyness around women.

Specifically with my help you will

• learn how to think of dating so that it is easy and fun for you and her (this took me years to figure out)

• practise my unheard of mindset that basically makes people attracted to you in the street (this is a bit scary at first)

• learn the "magic circle technique" to magically relax anywhere

• overcome limiting beliefs that stop you from attracting women (this is ninja stuff that will change your perception radically) ...so that you can only see yourself succeeding from then on

• start "field assignments" - starting quick chats with people (you won't believe how this changes your life)

• learn how you use mental rehearsal to make meeting women which used to frighten you into events that you have already succeeded in many times over in your mind (I ll record your personal mindtrack for you which you can use daily-this took me out of deep sleep a few years back)

• you will have learned my own ninja tricks to approach girls in any situation (tried & tested)

• you will have got answers to your questions from me on our live call

and so much more...

Week 3 Mr Communicator week

In Week Three you will begin to start conversations with women..learning the secrets of rapport, following and leading and how to use your voice, body and words to be more compelling. (Some of this is the stuff that companies have paid me thousands of Pounds to teach their managers but it's with girls this stuff really works)

Specifically you will learn

• the art of following and leading in a conversation (being able to do both is gold)

• 5 different ways to build rapport (involving your body, voice, words, intonation, face)

• how to elicit someone's deep values (magic stuff)

• how to quickly connect with someone through listening "actively" (this is killer stuff I keep getting booked for by companies)

• the REAL purpose of a "conversation" (it's not to seem interesting)

• how to be playful and flirt (most guys don't get this-you will)

• the do's and absolute don'ts for being attractive (nuff said)

• the mindset that draws a girl to you

• get answers to your questions on our live call

• approach at least 3 girls you find interesting (this is where I ll be nudging you along...get ready!)

• develop your online female interests

and much more..

Week 4 "Getting Dates Week"

In Week 4 you will be getting dates. You will meet up with at least 2 girls you are interested in. You will put things into practice. And I will help you out according to your needs..

Specifically with my help you will

• get additional help overcoming voice and body language obstacles learning from the world's most famous actors (nobody else teaches this secret stuff)

• get the super avatar method that will make you have your ideal self image with you at the click of a finger

• get a second assessment of your online profile (if necessary) on the live call plus tips how to make it more compelling

• have a live call submodality change technique that will transform your association with dating forever from fear to fun

• meet with at least 2 women and will learn that you can approach girls confidently and meet up with them and enjoy it

• learning through GETTING AWARENESS AND DOING and you will be able to use these techniques to enhance not just your dating life but also your social life and even your professional life.

• have learned the tools that will keep giving you the ability to manage fears, preventing the "snap back effect" (going back to where you were) and attract your perfect woman into your life for the long term

and so much more.

What's great about an online group?

• Throughout the 4 weeks I will be able to adjust to your needs and questions.

• You will be able to help other guys on the group by checking on each others progress and sharing stuff you are learning...

• You will be able to always access older posts..and the group system can stay open for as long as we want after the program so you can check in with the new friends you have made for weeks after and remind yourself of all the things you have learned.

• Having other guys there who are wanting to achieve the same aims keeps you focussed. You need to be a part of it to get this.

• I will be do weekly conference calls where you can learn from the questions that others are having and how I am advising them

• I WILL be holding you to account....making sure that you implement the techniques and take the steps we worked out together.

More BENEFITS you are going to love:

1. This program is tailored around your day. You do the work and the learning when you can.I will do a live fast start call every Monday that is the pace setter for the week. This you can download once I put the recording on the website.Then you can listen to it on your ipod or computer and start implementing when you can.

2. You can message me on the group site whenever you have a problem with something that can't wait for the live call.

My promise to you: I will respond within 2 days with meaningful advice or tips.

3. I am absolutely focussed on you getting tangible results from this. I will nudge you forward and check up on how you are implementing.

4. I am absolutely committed to giving you full support over 6 weeks that will seriously affect your life and dating life. Because I know that dating success is completely linked with confidence you will probably experience a huge change in your personal life too which makes this program even more valuable.

5. You will get learning from me via the most effective channels of online communication including:

Listen only calls, live conference calls, video recordings, video demonstrations, video presentations, mp3 downloads...

6. Ok. Like any good coach I will push you forward gently but firmly. But if for whatever reason you want to go slower...

I won't scream and shout.It's not a race. So I will be firmly focussing on your needs here.

Ok. What's the catch?

This Group needs to be limited to no more than 15 people.

That's not to make you want it more by the way. ;-)

That's simply all I can manage in terms of logistics and individual attention. I don't like mass solutions. I like to see the results.

I can promise that this is the first opportunity of its kind, and it's unlikely that it will ever be offered with the IN-PERSON supprt again. But right about now you may be thinking…

“How Much Is This Training Going to Cost Me?”

Allow me to explain...

You need to be willing to invest a measly £197.00 to reserve your spot on this 4 WEEK transformational journey. This fee covers my time in putting all this together for you, all my personal time I am going to be spending with you, plus it ensures that only serious people apply.

If you think about it, I'm practically paying YOU to get this because...

EVERY SINGLE PERSON WHO IS GOING TO A PART OF THIS WILL HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME. 4 WEEKS OF INTENSE TRANSFORMATION AND REAL LIFE ACTION BASED ON MY COMBINED LEARNING UTILISING THE BEST OF NLP, SECRET ACTING TECHNIQUES, CONFIDENCE MINDSETTING AND MOST OF ALL MY OWN YEARS OF EXPERIENCE.

(THAT'S THE EQUIVALENT OF ABOUT ONE MEAL FOR TWO IN A RESTAURANT PER WEEK-I WILL TELL YOU CHEAPER PLACES FOR DATING SO THAT ALONE WILL BE A MONEY SAVER ;-))

But it gets better because ...

My "Balls On The Line"

Double Guarantee Ensures That YOU will Succeed.

Here's how it works...

Guarantee #1: 30-Day “Free Look”

You have a full 14 days starting Monday 11th May (more than enough time to go through the first 2 weeks of the course) to see if my “4 Week Intensive Getting Dates Online Group” is right for you. If you determine that it isn’t, just let us know and we’ll gladly refund your money. No hassles. No hard feelings.

But even if you go beyond the 14-day unconditional guarantee period you're still protected by Guarantee #2...

Guarantee #2: Money Where My Mouth Is…

This is crucial stuff so pay attention: Go through the training and complete all the Action Steps according to my instruction in the course. If by the end of the 4 weeks you haven’t felt you have made significant progress, let me know and I’ll personally work with you for an additional 4 weeks. (I'll not only give you access to my private email adress, I'll also allow you to schedule 30-minute calls with me if necessary).

How's that for putting my money where my mouth is?

That's how serious I am about wanting you to succeed, and that's also how confident I am that my system really works!

You see, if I don't hold up to my end of the bargain, I'm down another 4 weeks -- and you know how important my time is to me.

SO. IF YOU DILIGENTLY ATTEND THE VIDEO TRAINING SESSIONS, FOLLOW THE ACTION STEPS AND TAKE PART IN THE ADVISORY CALLS, YOU WILL START TO OVERCOME YOUR SHYNESS, LEARN TO START CONVERSATIONS EASILY AND BE ABLE TO ATTRACT AND ENJOY MEETING WOMEN!

I ABSOLUTELY GUARANTEE IT!

As long as you're committed, you simply CANNOT fail.

But whatever you do, DON’T delay. When I say this course is limited...I mean it!

Once it hits the limit, the registration link will be taken down and you will be on the outside looking in. Don't let that happen!

If you're interested, click on the registration button below (as soon as it becomes active) and reserve one of the slots before it's too late...10 spaces is all I've got.

Remember this is the first program of its kind..and it may never happen with my direct involvement again because it is so time intensive for me.

BUT WAIT

I'm offering an 'upgrade' option limited to three people.

Here's how it works.

You'll go through the entire 4-week programme with everyone else. You'll apply the methods, mindsets and take action like everyone else.

AND

YOU ALSO GET THE OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE ME COACHING YOU ONE ON ONE WITH TWO FOLLOW UP Video or Phone COACHING SESSIONS OF NO LESS THAN 60 MINUTES EACH. (Again.. I am not a clock watcher..when I say 60 min it tends to be 90 in real life)

WE WILL SCHEDULE THESE COACHING CALLS ACCORDING TO YOUR NEEDS-AND MY AVAILABILITY)

ONE ON ONE WE CAN GO EVEN DEEPER. I CAN HELP YOU WITH SELF LIMITING BELIEFS AND HELP YOU WITH ANY LINGERING "BLOCKS" THAT MIGHT STILL OCCASIONALLY MAKE YOUR DATING DIFFICULT. I CAN BASICALLY HELP YOU WITH ANYTHING YOU WANT. AND I WILL. PERSONALLY. ONE ON ONE.THIS IS THE KIND OF STUFF PEOPLE NORMALLY PAY ME A FORTUNE FOR.

This is NOT FOR EVERYONE -- IT IS AN ADDED INVESTMENT IN YOURSELF OF £200 ON TOP OF THE PRICE OF THE GROUP WORKSHOP-SO A TOTAL OF £397

It's an investment - sure. And as i said this isn't for everyone. This is for you if you seriously want to get to the next level. And I don't necessarily expect this option to sell out. Who knows.

You need to feel that you really need this for sure. But bear in mind... one on one time is an absolute game changer and can seriously change your life.

OK - it's decision time.

I've told you what to expect from my Getting Dates Program and the Upgrade option...you can keep doing what you're doing - and hope that things get better - or you can decide to change your dating, yourself and your life now.

You don't have to be totally convinced right now. Take action and see if the programme is everything I say it is...If I'm right - then you're likely to be amazed how easy things can be around women and how much better life can be. If I'm wrong - you get your investment back.

So you see you can't lose.

Remember this programme is only open for 15 registrants. This page will come down on Thursday May 7th, 09 at 20.00 GMT or until all 15 spaces are filled -- whichever happens first.

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I'll see you on the inside.

To Your Dating Success,

Stephan Erdmann

PS: Please send me an email at stephan@tooshytodate.com

if you have any further questions...

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